Your household, on your account.
Every tap changes actual stored data. Approving a notification closes a real record; adding a health fact goes through the real confirmation step. The only thing being pretended here is the phone — the lock screen is a stand-in until the app is on a real device.
It decides whether now is a reasonable moment, not just whether something is due. Everything it holds back is listed with a reason — a system that goes quiet should be able to say why.
Not time spent and not notifications sent. What matters is how often it offered something useful and she said yes — and how rarely it interrupted her for nothing.
Everything Handled has in mind when it answers. It stays this size as the months go by — that's the part that keeps it from getting vague.
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